Share This

Showing posts with label Gratitude. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gratitude. Show all posts

Monday, June 10, 2013

It's Not The Destination, It's The Journey - To Monhegan Island


New Harbor where one the Ferry departs from on the mainland 

Just two days ago I went on a day trip to Monhegan Island.
It is an Island with about 60 residents, 
and until VERY recently there was no ELECTRICITY.
The INNS that you stayed at were all GASLIGHT.

Talk about 'checking out' when you are 
checking in to your vacation house or Inn.....
This is isolation....
this is a true 'escape' right here off the eastern coast of the U.S.
in Maine.



This is a snap of Monhegan Island while approaching. 
Manana is to the upper right side of the island creating a harbor
A close shot of the Isle of Manana which creates the Harbor of Monhegan Isle



But here is my story .....
On the way down to catch the ferry which would take us to Monhegan,
my dear friend gave me the wrong directions and we traveled 25 minutes 
out of the way.

When we finally got to the end of the peninsula ....
I said : "there is no ferry....we went the wrong way"

(we were on a schedule - we had to catch the ferry at 4:30pm
and it was now 5 minutes until 4pm)

She made a call and sure enough we were way off course.
But,
the entire ride on the wrong road
I kept saying over and over,
"This is amazing".

And I meant it.

It was a ride through coastal villages with small harbors.
...Breathtaking views of homes on hills hanging over the water.
Homes that made me wonder about the owners of these 'HOMES'....
just how did they ever find such a lovely spot?

Did they one day take a WRONG turn on the RIGHT road?

The villages were so cozy - forgotten by time and trends.
( not great phone reception here in Maine) 

I could have stayed in this area for days taking pictures,
but now I had to HURRY and turn around and find this damn FERRY!

My friend apologized....
I could see she felt badly.
I reached over and gently tapped her on the leg and said:
"Seriously, don't worry about it! 
This detour was gorgeous. 
Fantastic. I am glad we got lost".
And I meant it.

Lobsta' boat at the dock at Monhegan Island

We did make the ferry just in time.... 
but not without being totally winded from running 
down a very long road to from the car to the ferry.
Manana Isle creates the Harbor for Monhegan Island

I have been told these beautiful stories about Monhegan Island for years.
Everyone paints it as this magical place with breathtaking vistas.
This is what I saw as soon as I got off the ferry walking into the village.

(I loved these white flowers and would love to know what they are)

Monhegan Island has all pale grey/sandy roads.
There are a very few cars here, maybe 3?

Needless to say it is rustic....
Monhegan is about 10 miles off shore and was first established 
in the early 1600's as a plantation of sorts.


People have chickens,
because there is not much in the way of groceries.
In the winter months a mail boat comes 
about twice a week carrying supplies.
I really don't know how (year after year) you would live through winters.



These are the roads.


This is the path I followed up to the top of Monhegan.


The view on the walk up to the light house -


Here is a view from the top of Monhegan



The lush backyard of some Monhegan resident.


The last house on the path on the way to the village. 
 had gorgeous poppies in their front bed.





I loved this image and want to try my hand at painting it.


The point of this trip was to get to the Monhegan Library,
and this was the road to it.


This is the old apple tree in front of the old library where my group was meeting.
The library was incredibly charming and cozy.
It still blows my mind that 
they did EVERYTHING BY GASLIGHT until recently.



This place of course had 2 other rooms.
Every inch of the Monhegan Library was packed with people like sardines.
It was great.

~~~~~~~~~~~

Back to 
'TAKING THE WRONG TURN ON THE RIGHT ROAD'

You see, 
had I not been in a good place in my head and heart,
that 'wrong turn' could have really ruined my attitude for the rest of the trip.
Today I am trying to tune into something bigger than myself,
I try to do the next right thing that is in front of me.
....keeping it simple.

This big transition from Fla. to Maine had really 
knocked the wind out of my sails.

But,
'Today' I feel gratitude.
It is difficult to be thinking lousy thoughts
or 
feeling lousy when you are grateful.

The long and short of it is that Monhegan Island 
is over rated.
I don't really care 'WHO' stayed there!
It's nice, but my socks weren't blown off.

The very best part of the entire day 
was the ride down the wrong road !

And ...
in the dark, in the cold, and on the rocky seas I rode back on the ferry
while talking to a charming old man from Camden.

Being present in 'the moment' is this summers assignment for myself.

*MONHEGAN ISLAND FACTS*

• Monhegan: Abenaki Indian word
   meaning "the Island"

 Tallest cliffs on the coast of Maine
   at 165 feet

 Monhegan Light is the 2nd highest
   lighthouse on the Maine coast at
   178 feet above sea level

 Approx. 60 year round residents

 Approx. 1.5 miles long and three-
   fourths of a mile wide

 Capt. George Weymouth
   visits in 1605 and
   Capt. John Smith in 1614

 9.8 miles between New Harbor
   and Monhegan

 One of only 14 remaining
   year-round Island communities

 Incorporated in 1839

 A seasonal water system is
   supplied by a spring fed meadow

 Ice was cut and stored for
   summertime use until 1972

 Central Monhegan Power Company
   established in the late 1980’s

 The Federal Government installed
   the first telephone during WWII
   to communicate with lookouts

 Monhegan Island Light
   constructed in 1824

Follow Me on Pinterest Renee Finberg 'TELLS ALL' in her Blog of her Adventures in Design,Boca Raton and Camden Maine, All Interior Design Services, Monhegan Island, wrong turns, gratitude, Maine's beauty,
Monhegan Island, wrong turns, gratitude, Maine's beauty, your heart in the right place

Friday, December 25, 2009

Merry Christmas, Keep Your Expectaions Low, And Vent On Your Blog






by  AmoLaZucca  on YouTube 

The title of this post might have been
"What A Drag Clean Up Is After Christmas",
until I fell upon the first photo in this post.
It had a link to the song which I have put right under her picture.
The music is beautiful....
and the message slapped me in the face.
I needed it.
I can get to feeling sorry for myself.
I can bitch and moan.
And then something or someone reminds me.... 
how fortunate some of us are to have a turkey to cook for our families.

I have had some pretty crummy Holiday Seasons....
but it is my nature to.
The holidays get me to feeling 'raw'.
Yesterday I was driving with my top down,
it was a gorgeous day in sunny Boca Raton
 and I just started crying.
I am no Hallmark Card kid from a Hallmark Card family.
(Who is?)
It was something 
related to my expectations.
 It was a little thing that always happens
between my daughter and myself.
It is always the same old thing....
So why do I continually
expect a different outcome
the next time the same issue comes up?
There is a saying;
The definition of insanity is
 "Doing the same thing over and over, and expecting different results"

But I do.
I think I keep hoping things will be different.
I need to keep the focus on myself.
On my issues, on who I am, and what my actions are.
I need to lower my expectations.
And just love her....and let her go.
I don't mean let her go like
I don't care what she does or who she is,
but accept her for who she is.
(And lower my expectations)

Usually when I am having any kind of problem
it stems from how, and from where I am viewing the issue.

There are more people in this country
that are homeless and losing their homes than will be 'made public.'
They are not dealing with cleaning up after xmas.
They are not putting away all the precious xmas ornaments.

They are not dealing with all the garbage
from the xmas packages being gleefully torn open
last night or this morning.
They had no xmas dinner to clean up,
no xmas morning breakfast dishes to load in the dishwasher.
They gave their children nothing.
Maybe they found something in the garbage
that they cleaned up and wrapped in a shopping bag for their child.
Or if they were lucky....
they got something from " Toys For Tots'.
Think about that.
I need to.
I was able to do what I needed to this year.
I need to have gratitude.
It is so easy to forget what we do have in our lives.
Even if we do have 
THE LUXURY of cleaning up after xmas.

Bye Bye Christmas.
Until Next Year.....

Love you guys....and you know who you are XXX's

Renee Finberg 'TELLS ALL' in her BLOG.....
Interior Design, Palm Beach, Boca Raton,Ft.Lauderdale,Design Service, Window Treatments, TurnKey Interior Design Service,Paint selection, Floor-Plans,Online Interior Design,
Design Center of The Americas, D.C.O.T.A.,Xmas Clean up, Gratitude,
Share/Save/Bookmark

Monday, July 13, 2009

"A man is never so proud as when striking an attitude of humility." C.S. Lewis

When you read this I will be in training at a new job. It's not really a 'new' job , I worked for this company briefly 4 years ago.
My town, which by most peoples standards is a very pretty town, has a problem. It's the store fronts. They are emptying out....quickly. The downtown area , on the main street is not good.

As you might imagine, clients are not chasing me down the street. Nor are they throwing money at me for this spectacularly brilliant design brain of mine. I am going to work for a big family furniture business in South Florida. They have a lovely design department too.
So..........if it's Monday, I am in training.
Training to be a better me.... Am I humble? Humility allows me to remain teachable.

I am not the 'boss of me' anymore.
Was I ever ? Even when I worked for myself....I still really worked for who ever was writing the checks for the furniture and fabrics.
I have promised myself that I will have an attitude of gratitude for this opportunity. A good attitude is the only thing that will make me a success.
I think a lot of what went wrong with this country (myself included) is a lack of gratitude for what we had. We fell into the trap of thinking what we had was not enough. There was always something bigger and better right around the corner. We all know (especially a designer)...that bigger is not always better.

Renee Finberg 'TELLS ALL' in her BLOG.....
Interior Design, Palm Beach, Boca Raton,Design Sources, Window Treatments, Custom Design, Paint, Color Coordination, Online Interior Design, Floor Plans, All Custom,Gratitude, Humility

Share/Save/Bookmark

About Renée Finberg

I have been in this business since the age of 22.

I love what I do and cannot imagine my life without Design.

Design Challenges are great.

And because of those challenges

I have imported fine antique pieces from Paris,

Designed and Manufactured Furniture,

Created Fantastic Window Treatments,

And solved all kinds of spatial & architectural issues

With my unique style.

If I can't find it, I create it.

My rooms would make excellent movie sets.

I am a visual, tactile and audio sensitive individual.

Creating is what I live for, not math, not spelling, not science.

Just Great Design.

Just imagine how it would be if each of us,

If only for a few hours of everyday,We could be in a space that is our very own.A place that is exactly the way we want it to be

Surrounded by all the things we wanted to see,

The atmosphere we wanted feel, smell and the sound we wanted to listen to.

Private Paradise

AS FEATURED IN:

AS FEATURED IN:

Creative Commons License

Creative Commons License
Renee Finberg 'TELLS ALL' in her Adventures in Design by Renee Finberg is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported License.
Based on a work at www.reneefinberg.com.
Permissions beyond the scope of this license may be available at reneefinberg@gmail.ocm.

Protected Journalist