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Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Got A Shovel?


I kept rolling around in bed last night 
waking occasionally in fear 
Did I order a table for a client
that is too big for the space? 
It is going into a 2 walled banquette area 
that is in a family room. 
The area is adjacent to a passage way.....

I gave into the clients pressure 
to order this pedestal table because 
of the specific look.
'Pottery Barn-ish'
I guess the worst that will happen 
is that we can pop the top off and re-size it.

I hate this......
as I am typing 
I am freaking internally.

I found the long blurb below 
by happenstance 
 and thought it was interesting.
Maybe you will too.
huh? maybe??????
YOU perfect blogger you!!!


Fear of Failure:
Perfectionists are also much more afraid to fail than are high achievers. Because they place so much stock in results and become so disappointed by anything less than perfection, failure becomes a very scary prospect. And, since anything less than perfection is seen as ‘failure’, this can lead to…

It seems paradoxical that perfectionists would be prone to procrastination, as that trait can be detrimental to productivity, but perfectionism and procrastination do tend to go hand in hand. This is because, fearing failure as they do, perfectionists will sometimes worry so much about doing something imperfectly that they become immobilized and fail to do anything at all! This leads to more feelings of failure, and a vicious cycle is thus perpetuated.

Perfectionism is one of the traits associated with obsessional behavior and like obsessionality is also believed to be regulated by the basal ganglia. (so this is the problem area)


Sometimes 
I just want to dig that thing 
out of my head!!!!!


Gotta a shovel??
XXX's just me

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About Renée Finberg

I have been in this business since the age of 22.

I love what I do and cannot imagine my life without Design.

Design Challenges are great.

And because of those challenges

I have imported fine antique pieces from Paris,

Designed and Manufactured Furniture,

Created Fantastic Window Treatments,

And solved all kinds of spatial & architectural issues

With my unique style.

If I can't find it, I create it.

My rooms would make excellent movie sets.

I am a visual, tactile and audio sensitive individual.

Creating is what I live for, not math, not spelling, not science.

Just Great Design.

Just imagine how it would be if each of us,

If only for a few hours of everyday,We could be in a space that is our very own.A place that is exactly the way we want it to be

Surrounded by all the things we wanted to see,

The atmosphere we wanted feel, smell and the sound we wanted to listen to.

Private Paradise

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